Growing up autistic comes with a unique set of challenges, joys, and unexpected victories. Many autistic individuals recall struggling with sensory overload, social interactions, and an education system that often wasn’t designed for their way of thinking. Simple things—like the buzz of fluorescent lights, the unpredictability of conversations, or the pressure to conform—can make childhood and adolescence overwhelming. For some, being misunderstood led to isolation, while others masked their traits to fit in, often at great emotional cost.
But amidst the challenges, there are moments of joy that define the autistic experience. Many autistic individuals have deep passions, whether it’s art, science, music, or a specific area of interest that brings them immense happiness. One person shared how their love for trains helped them connect with others who shared the same enthusiasm, turning what others saw as an obsession into a source of friendship and fulfillment. These unique perspectives and interests often lead to creativity, innovation, and deep expertise in chosen fields.
The unexpected wins of growing up autistic come in many forms—finding a community that accepts neurodiversity, learning self-advocacy, or discovering strengths that once felt like weaknesses. For some, it’s the relief of an adult diagnosis that finally makes sense of years of struggle. For others, it’s the realization that their way of thinking, while different, is valuable and needed in the world. Autism isn’t just about the difficulties; it’s about embracing a different but equally meaningful way of experiencing life.
Kanishka